Knowing When to Walk Away: Reflections on Life and Ministry
Early in my ministry, I remember a pastor sharing the challenges he had faced with certain difficult members of his congregation. As he moved on to “greener pastures,” he admitted there were people in that church for whom he wouldn’t even cross the street. He was grateful to move on, glad to shake the dust off his feet. At the time, I thought his attitude was un-Christlike - but over the years, I have come to understand him. I am not condoning bitterness, malice, or prejudice. In fact, I believe those who follow Jesus most closely are often marked by the greatest compassion and mercy. Those nearest to Him tend to be humble, quick to forgive, and eager for reconciliation. Still, there are times when this man’s attitude is entirely appropriate. They may be rare, but I have learned that there are people for whom I, too, would not cross the street. But first, a clarification . Today, Christians are sometimes known for their animosity toward pe...